megdeford

TLDR: That "back at zero" feeling? It's lying to you. Everything you've lived, learned, survived, and outgrown is coming with you. You're not starting over, you're starting from experience. There's a difference. Use it.

Should creates an illusion of autonomy until we explore why we feel in conflict with it. This is where curiosity becomes powerful.

TL;DR: possibility is where life actually happens - make the choice. We often mistake running simulations for making decisions. We play out every what-if: What if it doesn’t work? What if I fail? What if I look silly? What if I can’t do it? You don’t decide your way forward by rehearsing outcomes. Clarity doesn’t come before the decision. It comes because of it. There’s a fork in the road most of us face again and again. One path is "what if." It feels responsible, and it gives you a sense of...